just a PSA to people who aren’t exposed to gay bear stuff that there are people with bodies like this who like bodies like this and want absolutely nothing to do with a thin hairless person in their bed
fat validation isn’t always about being attractive to thin people
and when fat people fuck fat people it isn’t always because they didn’t have the self-esteem to get someone “hotter”
and there are people with beauty standards that puts these men at the absolute top, even though they’re never gonna be the magazine-cover poster boys for mainstream sexy
which also means: even if you don’t think you’re beautiful, believe people when they say you are, because maybe their taste isn’t defined by the mainstream and they honestly think you, exactly how you are, fat or bony or hairy or hairless or birthmarked or lumpy or scarred or puffy-nippled or messy-haired or short-eyelashed or thin-lipped or asymmetrical or flat-assed, are the hottest fucking person ever at the absolute top of their own personal hotness hierarchy
just remember that!!!