Please don’t ever try to learn how to rub a clit from porn.

I repeat, please don’t EVER try to learn how to rub a clit from porn.

porn clit rubbing looks like they’re trying to scrub burnt food off a frying pan


As much as I love porn, most of it is not for teaching.





i felt like doodling :)

*please do not delete caption, do not repost or change source*

casually reblogging myself XD

One of the many reasons why we set up this community <3 A safe place for littles and pets (care givers and owners) of all genders to come and enjoy themself. That is what the site is going to aim to provide.
A safe space for everyone regardless of gender, colour, neurotype, size etc. <3

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Quotes from Courtney Trouble’s Keynote at the Feminist Porn Conference.

A powerful speech all LGBTQ people and allies should see.

I was blow away! (then I created this)

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I will be working on cam tonight after a little break and donate 50 % of my earnings (which hopefully will be plenty-ish) to feeding children in Ferguson who would go without food otherwise.

However, since my site takes such a large cut, I will also offer…

I don’t make a habit of using this forum for promotion (or at least not much of a habit) but this is a pretty rad thing to do for the world right now.




Impact play is a common kink that’s practiced in D/s dynamics and S&M. It can be a form of punishment, teasing, and funishment. Spanking is the most well-known form of impact play either with hands and brushes. However, other objects can be used depending on the amount of pain or bruising that wants to be inflicted.

Short range vs Long Range:

Short range objects include hand, brush, ruler, belt, paddle, or anything that requires you to stand fairly close to the spankee.

Long range objects include canes, crops, whips, cat o nine tails, and floggers.


  • Practice before engaging in impact play if you’re using long range or hard equipment.
  • Always have your partner’s consent and a safe word. If you don’t have a safe word, use these colors:
    red = stop
    yellow = slow down or pause
    green = resume the scene
  • If the spankee is gagged or cannot speak, use a hand signal as safe words.
  • If you’re using a whip, practice with it before using it on someone. Aiming isn’t as easy as it looks and you could accidentally injure your sub/bottom.
    Also keep in mind that whips can break skin!
  • Never hit the following areas:
    Mid back - Your kidneys are located here
  • These areas can be hit but with caution:
    Face (only with your hand)
    Inner thighs
  • If you spank someone with a cane or whip and the spankee bleeds, clean your equipment before using it on someone else.

A good thing to remember is that fatty areas work well with harder spankings and objects, while boney areas should not be hit with hard objects (like brushes and paddles) and should be hit moderately and lightly.

Don’t be afraid to attend dungeons and observe how others use their toys and ask questions.


Aftercare is extremely important. Not only could you have bruises and welts to soothe but you have to treat subdrop also. If you’re not familiar with subdrop or subspace, refer to this post or read on Google.

Having an aftercare kit is a good start. It should include an icepack, wet cloths, bandaids, a blanket, water and Gatorade, pain relievers, and energy food.

Do not leave your sub or bottom alone after a scene. Hold them, hug them, kiss them, cuddle them or anything that lets you know that you love them and soothes them.

If you’re shaking, feeling lightheaded, panicking, or hyperventilating you should lie down and relax. I recommend taking deep breaths where you breathe in from your nose, hold it in, and then exhale until the next breath comes naturally. This is something that I was taught to do for panic attacks. This should help the tremors (shaking) stop, help you calm down, and bring your heart beat and breathing back to normal.

Dawww at these tutorials they are fantastic.

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Eleanor Rose's dedicated picture for!

And so is bare. Do what you want and share it with the world!


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Porn Actress Exposes Industry: Trafficking in the Porn Industry - The Pink Cross

Elements of Sex Trafficking

Act: Recruitment, transportation, transfer, harbouring or receipt of persons;

Means: Threat or use of force, coercion, abduction, fraud, deception, abuse of power or vulnerability, or giving payments or benefits to a person in control of the victim;

Purpose: Prostitution of others, sexual exploitation, forced labor or services, or slavery.

- From the 2000 UN Protocol to Prevent, Suppress and Punish Trafficking in Persons, Especially Women and Children, ratified by 154 countries. (x)

[Highlighted elements of sex trafficking in the porn industry connect with the examples Lubben gives in this specific gifset, other elements do occur in the porn industry as well].


"The federal Trafficking Victims Protection Act defines the crime of human trafficking as:

A. The recruitment, harboring, transportation, provision, or obtaining of a person for the purpose of a commercial sex act where such an act is induced by force, fraud, or coercion, or in which the person induced to perform such act has not attained 18 years of age, or

B. The recruitment, harboring, transportation, provision, or obtaining of a person for labor or services, through the use of force, fraud, or coercion for the purpose of subjection to involuntary servitude, peonage, debt bondage, or slavery.” - (x)


… [P]ersons are trafficked into the international sex trade, often by force, fraud, or coercion. The sex industry has rapidly expanded over the past several decades. It involves sexual exploitation of persons, predominantly women and girls, involving activities related to prostitution, pornography, sex tourism, and other commercial sexual services. The low status of women in many parts of the world has contributed to a burgeoning of the trafficking industry. -
The Victims of Trafficking and Violence Prevention Act (TVPA). TVPA combats trafficking in persons, especially into the sex trade, slavery, and involuntary servitude. It has been reauthorized three times since its initial passage: (x)



We need to be talking about this and we need to be making sex work safe. No one should be made to feel like this treatment is okay.

This is why, as much as I love watching people fuck for prurient interests I fucking hate porn.


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((The ability to appreciate and evaluate human aesthetic is not determined by your sexuality))

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Lesbian 101: 7 Simple Lessons to Understand the L Word

(All Images Courtesy of Findchaos on Deviantart)

Some times I forget that not everyone has moved past this shit.


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hi im ari and i’m not a shemale or tranny or lady boy i am a trans woman I have boobs a butt sorta and this is my girl penis. I’m a trans woman and thats a lot sexier than a slur!

Really fcking important PSA ^

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Exactly my argument when a basic bitch gives me bisexual erasure bullshit

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Stockroom University - Jewell Marceau VS the Fucksaw

Chicago sexperts Ken Melvoin-Berg and Sunny Megatron returned to Stockroom University on Wednesday night for their educational and always entertaining G-spot and Female Ejaculation class. The 2 hour presentation combined anatomy lessons and sex tips with a hands-on demo featuring award winning bondage and fetish model Jewell Marceau.

During the lecture portion of the class Jewell was instructed to slip out of class and ‘warm her self up’ in preparation for an attempt at a G-spot orgasm, so she made herself at home in the Stockroom workroom and happily obliged. “I brought my own fluffer!” she said.

After her warm up it was time for Jewell VS the Fuck Saw. Jewell squealed and squirmed and climaxed more than once, but in the end it was the Quirk Steel Dildo that finally caused this orgasm loving beauty’s squirting surprise, much to the delight of her captivated audience.

I’m getting ready to put together a fuck saw of my own.  I look forward to it.



"for the eager student of female inner workings"

I want this to be a real thing so badly.


"for the eager student of female inner workings"

I want this to be a real thing so badly.